Saturday, January 20, 2007

Pop, goes the weasel!

First let me make it clear that if at all there is a concept of rebirth and I am compelled to be a human being and offered a choice to choose the sex then I would choose to be a male again and not a female. We guys just have an easy life. No labour pains, no menopausal mood swings and probably not a lot of other things. Yeah some might suffer from impotency but then Viagra is there for rescue, remember? It definitely takes a hell lot of courage to be a woman in this world.


I was going home from my workplace quite late at night and stopped at the JM Road traffic signal. No, there was no one with a placard this time.. actually there was hardly any traffic around. As I was waiting for the light to turn green some 2-wheeler came by and halted a few steps behind me (later came to know that a girl was riding it). A few seconds later I heard a bike coming from behind at a very fast speed and then there was a THUD! sound and the bike, which had 2 guys on it skid a bit and roared away on the road to the left. Assuming that they had hit the roadside pavement and regained their balance I didn’t think much on it. While the guys were vrooming away the girl started mouthing expletives towards them. I was surprised in the beginning but then I thought it must be something personal so didn’t pay much attention. When I turned back again I saw her in tears (only her eyes were visible coz of the headscarf) and she was clutching the backside of her head and it dawned upon me that the sound was not of the pavement but those guys had actually hit the girl on her head. Though it seemed certain that she had been hit I still asked her whether those guys had hit her and she nodded while weeping inconsolably. A few swear words escaped from my mouth and I asked if she was alright and wanted any help. It might be quite tough to seek help from a stranger after suffering from (probably) strangers. She somehow gathered herself and realizing that I could not be of any more help to her I left and headed back home.


Yashita had posted a while back about the wanking rickshaw driver incident her friends had faced and now this.. I really doubt now that the recent articles in a newspaper that Pune is a safe city for females holds true. The article said Pune is much better as compared to other cities like Mumbai and Delhi. Now I wonder what must be the plight of eves in those cities. Such incidents do make me think whether being a man in the next birth is worth it. Men and courage/strength are most of the times co-related but I don’t think I could have done something to those guys if they had not driven away. I had never felt so fucking useless before that incident.

13 comments:

teacup said...

oh, god! so this is really true too? mum always told me that this happens and warns me not to go out late in the night...but I never believed her! am just a but shocked right now...

BD said...

Scary it is! But definitely not new...it's happened, it's happening and will continue to happen, coz men will be men and women will be women!

AnonymousBlogger said...

It's a sad story. Unfortunately, I think woman are treated like this all over the world all the time. Just no regard.

But what could you do? You did everything in your power. You made sure she was OK, and that's all that could have been asked of you.

PrAcHi said...

Sad but true.. Everything about the respect for women. Some men just can’t see women doing anything. They want them to be a showpiece. They know that women are physically quite week than men, but they don’t understand how strong they are mentally.
You did whatever you could do Sudeep. N it’s so honest of you to post about how you felt over here. Your feelings are also equally important. It proves you are a gentleman.
You reminded me a incidence which happened to me n my friend some days back. Will post about it now.

Keshi said...

OMG thats freaky!

Keshi.

Aditi said...

scary... but known to happen unfortunately...

Ayshu said...

This is bad!Same kind of thing happ to my friend also!THis was a delibrate attempt to hit her. What can we do about these ppl ?

Love you longtime! said...

Very scary.. but instead of questioning Delhi, Pune, Mumbai... it's the urban areas which see such incidents. Surely rural areas have their share of such things, but they can get away with a "we're not educated/modern/whatever" response.

I bet the guys who did that were not migrants or something, but their idea of a woman must be "something which is inferior to men".... and that's sadly the mentality of many men too.

PrAcHi said...

Just posted my experiance...

Princess said...

nature blog is immortal...

Aiz.

Ekta said...

god!!!
I think practically EVERY women living in India has to go thru this SHIT from some A****** at some time...they shld all be slapped in public!

Vipul said...

darn it is so cheap and people should be strangled seriously
bloody Ass!@#@$%

Keshi said...

boooo Snob! didnt even ans our comments :)

Keshi.